Well it depends on what you like. If suburban living just makes you get all giddy , and a small town is not big enough anymore then yes Virginia Beach would be wonderful for you .
We are Chicagoans removed , so there was a complete culture shock when we came here. Besides the beach and Festevents in Norfolk, there's something missing. Maybe its a lively atmosphere, the proud cultures, non lethal traffic, reliable transportation , the seasoned food ..yeah something's missing .
Is it culture suppression ? is it unwillingness to grow? Conservative ? scared of new things? I don't know. I believe we need a bit more urban life.